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Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

In a world where most must sell their time for money to survive, free time is true luxury.
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Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I don't disagree, just a quite reminder that not everyone can afford this. The meme doesn't say it but it gives "money doesn't buy happiness" vibes and while this isn't false, a certain amount of money is required for this.
Als Antwort auf lugal

How much money does one need for a long walk and listening to birds?
Als Antwort auf Vent

  1. Time is money. If you work 2 jobs to provide for your kids alone, good luck finding the time and headspace to not worry about anything.
  2. Parks and forests aren't evenly distributed. Not everyone can afford living near one or going there.
Als Antwort auf Vent

In capitalism, one must first pay for basic necessities like food and shelter before anything else. For some people who make low wages this requires an amount of time and effort that interferes with their leisure time.

That said, there are also some people who think they are in this category when in reality their stress is due to self-imposed standards of living that are higher than necessary. Or anxiety and other psychological problems that could be addressed through non-material strategies.

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Als Antwort auf LibertyLizard

there are also some people who think they are in this category when in reality their stress is due to self-imposed standards of living that are higher than necessary. Or anxiety and other psychological problems that could be addressed through non-material strategies.


also encouraged and exacerbated by capitalism (the former - to create the illusion of a "middle class" for people to aspire to and vote against their own actual material conditions, the latter - by commodifying health care and pathologizing anything that harms "productivity")

Als Antwort auf Vent

How much money does one need to not have to choose between spending their evenings on a long walk listening to birds vs delivering pizzas as a third job to avoid eviction?
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Als Antwort auf humorlessrepost

Roughly $75,000+ a year to live comfortably as a single person in the US. Depending on location.
Als Antwort auf David_Eight

Do you answer all rhetorical questions? Is that your thing?
Als Antwort auf lugal

Yeah this is lowkey a boogie meme - the majority of people don't live in a work situation that allows for day naps!
Als Antwort auf queermunist she/her

How do we call something that the majority of people can't afford ?

A luxury

Als Antwort auf BastingChemina

We call it expensive, which is a subtlety that the title of this meme poopooing on "consumerism" is missing out on.

Hence, a boogie meme. Those of us down here in the dirt don't have time for these luxuries; we consume imitations.

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Als Antwort auf lugal

Maybe I'm misunderstanding the picture, but I thought that's why they were called luxuries - because not everyone gets to have them. Though they aren't what we usually associate with a luxurious lifestyle.

E: just to be clear, everyone should have them, but many are too occupied with the daily battle for survival.

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Als Antwort auf grrgyle

Yes, I read it the same way, that's why I said that I don't disagree. Still there is this other reading I wanted to "debunk"
Als Antwort auf lugal

Re-reading your comment I see that I must have meant to reply to someone else. I apologise, my social media timer sometimes makes me hasty.
Als Antwort auf lugal

You're in solarpunk territory. They want to
rid us of money entirely. Sounds pretty nice but requires huge cultural and lifestyle changes.
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I’d also add science - a subset of reading I suppose, but it can lead to experiments and theoretical models. I love it, costs me nothing (thanks Wiki supporters) and there’s still so much to learn and discover.
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I agree these are the real luxuries but they CAN be supplemented by a little happy consumerism here and there. I love to have a good conversation with friends over a good lunch at a restaurant, or going to a nice dinner. Have meals out is a nice luxury also.
Als Antwort auf tygerprints

I agree although ideally we should create public spaces where you don’t need to pay for a meal to have good conversation if you don’t want to.
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

The weird thing about this is, a few of these things are rather hard once you have kids.
Don't know the last time when I slept alone in my bed or had a slow morning.
But well, you get other things in return, like the pure love of you children so it's fine haha.
Als Antwort auf kassuro

That's because we destroyed the primitive communal family to create the nuclear family. Humans throughout most of history would raise their children collectively, rather than all the responsibility just being dumped directly onto the parents.

And they wonder why we don't have kids lol

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Als Antwort auf queermunist she/her

That's true, we also have the unfortunate situation that we don't have any relatives that could support us. All grand parents live at least ~5 hours away. Moving isn't really an option for my wife because of her work currently.

Really sucks...

Als Antwort auf kassuro

it's so wild because we still have the saying that it takes a village to raise a child!
Als Antwort auf kassuro

Congratulations, they are GenLast.

(The planet is dying from an overpopulation hug of death for those that didn't figure that out yet.)

Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

My good night's sleep was cut short by listening to birds singing...what now?
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I'll substitute sunrise in place of sunset and remove naps because I rarely sleep during the day because it fucks up my circadian rhythm. Everything else is spot on.
Als Antwort auf some_guy

Something about naps I discovered I that there is two kind of naps
* short naps around 20-30min where you don't get any deep sleep
* long naps around 1 or 2 full sleep cycles, so for most peoples 1.5 or 3 hours nap.

Waking up from a short nap should be easy and you should feel energized almost immediately, if its not the case it probably means that your body started a full sleep cycle.

So to be able to nap during the day we need to find a way to tell or body that this is just a short break and we are not going for a full sleep, usually sleeping somewhere different like the couch or in a different position in the bed

Als Antwort auf Nouveau_Burnswick

reminder that it takes a village to raise a child, it's so fucked up that people are expected to raise kids on their own and just have no free time
Als Antwort auf Swedneck

My work moved me away from family, not much I can do about that for the next 3 years.
Als Antwort auf Nouveau_Burnswick

not much I can do about that for the next 3 years


So, you live on a desert island? because if you don't, and you don't, there is plenty you can do about it... I guarantee that wherever you are, there is a supportive community to be a part of.

Als Antwort auf ShareMySims

Oh yeah I'm part of a couple of fantastic support communities, but those take more time, not give it back to you. The independent time without a child is what has evaporated.
Als Antwort auf Nouveau_Burnswick

I had most of these things before having a kid :( life was good back then
Als Antwort auf irmoz

Why add a symbol that is almost solely used by totalitarian governments?

The hammer and sickle remains commonplace in self-declared socialist states, such as China, Cuba, North Korea, Laos, and Vietnam, but also some former Soviet republics following the dissolution of the Soviet Union, such as Belarus and Russia.


en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hammer_a…

Are there any countries that use the symbol that are actually nice places to live with good governments?

Als Antwort auf laverabe

Yes I'm aware of the history of Angola.

You asked

Are there any countries that use the symbol that are actually nice places to live with good governments?


Angola has made a conscious decision to stick to this symbol as if transitions to a liberal democracy and stable economy. There were some efforts to change the flag recently because as you said it's often associated with totalitarian regimes. But those efforts failed because to Angolans it symbolizes the Angolan triumph over the colonial oppression of Portugal and resistance to apartheid South African invasion.

It could change in the future, Angola is still moving towards "good government" and "nice place to live" as you said. But for now it remains their national flag.

Als Antwort auf Humana

Interesting. That being said I don't understand the lemmygrad peoples desire for the Hammer and sickle as a symbol. Like almost nothing good has come from it. Even in Angola it seems to be viewed as a somewhat tarnished period in their history.
Als Antwort auf laverabe

I get what you mean, I'm helping to add nuance to the discussion. Also a bunch of white people coming in and telling Angolans what symbols they can and can't use to represent their triumph over colonialism and apartheid isn't a great look either.
Als Antwort auf laverabe

Meaning is also contextual - different cultures put different meaning in symbols. To represent global ideas we need some consensus.

Baltic neo-pagans were rigtfully culturally suppressed from using swastika as "symbol of Sun". Hammer and sickle also signifies millions of deaths and decades of repressioms. It is even forbidden in some post soviet countries along with swastika. Lets find something less damaging to represent marxist ideas.

@Humana

Als Antwort auf Justinas Dūdėnas

I don't believe in these sweeping absolutes. Context and motive are important parts of any equation of what's "acceptable".
Als Antwort auf Humana

I think the only system to believe in here is sensitivity to feelings and histories of others. If you don't mind triggering literally millions of people whose families were hurt by soviets, it is your choice.
And wouldn't you be against public display of swastikas if they are displayed by "neopagans" and supposedly symbolize Sun?
Als Antwort auf Justinas Dūdėnas

Do you ban them from museums? Textbooks? Documentaries? No because they are in an appropriate context. I would never wear or display a swastika and I feel disgusted to see one displayed by anyone with pride. Context and motive matter...
Als Antwort auf laverabe

I can't tell if you're being ignorant or disingenuous. The Ⓐ should be a clue as to my opinion on government in general, no? As for ☭ - check the first sentence of the article you linked. Or the description written under it, for what I meant to invoke.

I am no USSR apologist. I just consider that symbol useful as a marker for worker solidarity.

Als Antwort auf irmoz

I understand what it means, and I support what it is trying to do in theory. The problem is there has never been a government, to my knowledge, that has embraced the ideology that has not turned to corruption/totalitarianism. In these countries, the proletariat are deprived of their rights and fare far worse. That is what the hammer and sickle represents.

I'm happy to change my mind if an example can prove otherwise, but to my knowledge the most effective form of government is that of a social democracy, which is represented by a red rose.

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Als Antwort auf laverabe

I'm not talking about any governments.

Like I already told you:

The hammer and sickle (Unicode: U+262D ☭ ) is a communist symbol representing proletarian solidarity between agricultural and industrial workers.


This sentence is the entire and only reason I used that symbol. You have zero reason to continue to ask me for "good governments using this symbol". It is not a symbol of government. Communism is stateless, ergo no government. Just like anarchism.

You're trolling. Fuck off.

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Als Antwort auf irmoz

Nice civility

The swastika is thus understood to be a symbol of auspiciousness and good fortune


Symbols can have meanings that are different than what they turn into. Hammer and sickle is almost unanimously considered to be a symbol of Stalin USSR totalitarian communism where millions perished.

Als Antwort auf laverabe

The swastika is thus understood to be a symbol of auspiciousness and good fortune


The Hindu one is, yes.

Symbols can have meanings that are different than what they turn into.


Not denying that.

Hammer and sickle is almost unanimously considered to be a symbol of Stalin USSR totalitarian communism where millions perished.


Only to people ignorant of what communism actually means.

Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

Still need money for most of these.
Otherwise you'll be working for the basics
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

mornigs


Are other people just ignoring this or am I the only person who is distracted by this?

Als Antwort auf qaz

It was on the news this mroing

a mother in ar who had kill her three kids, they are taking the three babby back to new york too lady to rest. my pary are with the father who lost his chrilden ; i am truley sorry for your lots

Als Antwort auf HotsauceHurricane

Yeah, truth. Nobody has complete freedom in a world of other people. I don't get to run around being an ax murderer, for example (not that I want to be). There are plenty of guardrails and rules and laws, many for good reason.
Als Antwort auf tygerprints

I was talking about how the image above “express yourself” looks like fire.
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

people rejecting these ideas as a whole as they continue to doomscroll online 👌
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I'm on the fence about hearings birds singing. It is really annoying to get woken up way too early by a bird who just knows two tunes and sings it over and over and over again. Like what the fuck?! Didn't they teach you a third tune at bird school to make your song a bit more melodic and less irritating? Fucking twitter.
Als Antwort auf Zacryon

The birds here are really confused lately and have just been singing all night without a break, it's driving me crazy.
Als Antwort auf Zacryon

There's this big male cardinal who lives in my rhododendron. He's not the problem. The problem are the loud, brash younglings who show up and try to muscle in on his territory. They start before dawn, screaming at the top of a tree, making up for their lack of style with sheer volume.

Plus they sound like fucking car alarms. The Big Boy has a gorgeous call, and perches on the fence between the houses to take advantage of the acoustics, and starts at least an hour after dawn because no lady wants to be woken up early by a fuckboy.

He must be back early this year because there's only been one asshole bird who woke me up.

Als Antwort auf QuandaleDingle

Whenever I see him in the summer he's got at three or four females following him around.
Als Antwort auf DumbAceDragon

This. Especially in modern first-world nations. There are plenty of resources for the wealthy to still be wealthy and everyone to have at least economic security.
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

Sooo being a Hobbit? Yeah I'm good with that
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Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

So you think hurting people to make things the way you want them is acceptable? Because of video games? You are a dangerous man child (or maybe just a child).
Als Antwort auf mojo_raisin

You build my dystopia, you're imprisoning me. I am a cornered animal, do not fuck with me.
Als Antwort auf mojo_raisin

Confirmation indeed. It's really too much to fucking ask that you NOT build another fucking prison? You, not me, are the sociopath. At least I reserve my angry rampage for if you succeed.

You judge me for liking what I like? You are literally trying to control my life by redefining society, and no, I'm not some rich skullfucker nor do I think people aren't entitled to the same basic level of comfort I enjoy regardless of race, gender, eromantic orientation or anything else; they may not have it, but if you wanted real equality then you NEED to uplift people's minimum living standard.

Apparently you care more about organic produce and trees than children or the homeless.

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Who's talking about building a prison? You've imagined an enemy in solarpunk that has nothing to do with solarpunk and are getting upset at an internet stranger that has made no claims about wanting to stop you from playing video games.

You'll understand when your 13.

Als Antwort auf mojo_raisin

Then don't build it and we're fine. I'm angry because I'm disabled and Solarpunk is usually Ableist yet everyone is obsessed with social media detox and lumping all technologies in with it.
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

The solarpunk you've imagined in your head is ableist. Solarpunk is but an aesthetic. Don't assume so much and try to understand more nuance.
Als Antwort auf mojo_raisin

How do I live the life I want to live in a setting that tells me I "don't really enjoy this, you're just brainwashed by capitalism" over and over? By fighting back.

You and the aesthetic (idea) you follow are not powerless and you desire a world I am excluded from, purely because the part of my life I enjoy most (the fulfilment of escapism) doesn't fit into that worldview. I am probably not going to change anything, but so be it I wanted my position to be clear. You propose taking away a life(style) that I enjoy, and I want to point out that is what you're proposing. I cannot hold a job, I have issues which are permanent and pervasive that exclude any existence in a community-focused world and if solarpunk will not accommodate that then I will not accommodate it. I can't kill an idea, nobody can, but maybe I can get people to realise that solarpunk is not about only good improvements, it has a dark side and that dark side is that there are innocent people who fall through the cracks when only "the greater good" is considered.

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Bro, what does any of this have to do with solarpunk?

Just normal stuff...

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

No one is talking about you, mass media and consumerism has nothing to do with anything you described. Video games as a whole does not equal consumerism or mass media. Micro transactions and other terrible patterns do.
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Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

When was the last time you saw a video game in a solarpunk story?
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

I didn’t even think there were serious solar punk stories, and even if so, aren’t all of them like technological utopias? Why would entertainment ie video games be gone from them? Even if they aren’t the focus (which makes sense) what reason would a solar punk society have to do away with video games?
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Simple. Because most solarpunk is written by people who hate technology corporations.

To be fair, big tech is evil. Doesn't change my point.

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Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Um, but the majority of video games are not made by big tech? What is your point? Indie games are usually just better overall anyway. I’m really failing to see why any solarpunk society would stop people from making video games
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Because solarpunk writers are rarely, if ever, gamers. Gamers are a niche subculture in the solarpunk works I've seen and as you're seeing, people in the solarpunk community seem to like it that way.
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

My confusion continues to compound. Many of the people in this thread have zero issue with video games or actually play them. I really gotta see a source for

solarpunk writers are rarely, if ever, gamers.
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Explain why then, despite someone important mentioning video games occurs in the Necroverse (Transhumanist Cyberjock/Solarpunk story by "RichM90071"), no games being played are EVER shown.
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

I think that’s just cause video games are not great entertainment for grander story beats. They’re kinda like knitting or watching tv, something you do in your off time to relax or get away but not really flashy enough like gambling or an opera house to be featured.
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

All video games are made by technology corporations!
Except for Open TTD of course.
Als Antwort auf catnash [she/her, ae/aer]

Asshole, I never said that. I'm well aware TTD was originally a commercial product, that's my entire point. You can't make games for free, and yes, I value video games more than continued lifespan because art allows me to ignore a reality I despise for being defined by everyone else.

You don't have the right to fucking judge me for the tiny little quirk of liking a game, I only mentioned it because it was mildly relevant.

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Actually, I believe you can make games for free to consumers, and I believe systems inspired by solarpunk would, if anything, do a better job of encouraging this over our current political system. Art, including video games, doesn't just disappear in solarpunk societies.

I'm not judging you for liking a game, I never said anything of the sort, lol. Although I find it hard not to judge you if you just bark insults.

Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

I can't imagine a solarpunk universe *without* games honestly. In my head-cannon they're a vital part of education.
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Read "Project Hieroglyph" and the way one of its "optimistic" stories ("Girl in Wave: Wave in Girl") shows a multiplayer superhero game and the main character hates it. That's not how mental illness works, computers used to be GOOD for providing social contact. That's not education, that's "fix yourself".

I am not broken. I am unhappy because I don't want to live in a world where I face reality, whether that's "IRL" or "social media". You know why I like the 4th Matrix movie? It reminds us that this image isn't what the world provides, it's what the Matrix - real life - forces us to work towards. The Matrix isn't just the fake world, it's the fake world on top of a real one and the real escape is to change, not break, the system that binds us because there is nothing in the real but vast lifeless desert. Mars, the Moon... Dead rocks. There is no evidence of an afterlife nor any point to "accepting" a secular life you hate because you will still hate it and "scientific evidence only" doesn't fix anything or change who you are.

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

I’ll definitely have to give that a read, though some quick reading of opinions about that work are fairly mixed.

Also no one has said you’re broken or that you need to face reality. The whole point of solarpunk is that will be no world to face unless we take action. And none of that has anything to do with video games or anything you have described.

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Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Also are you ok? I find it rather odd to be this intensely invested about what is generally a fairly niche community in solarpunk. Not that the mission and ideology aren’t worth being passionate about, but I mean we are talking about video games and green societies nothing crazy.
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Mainly I'm a sci-fi author who hates the genre because almost everyone else wants it to be true and I'm the only one saying "it would literally be like the world is a prison to me" only to get the response "you're the only one not allowed to be happy, suffer so normal people are all equal".
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Again I’m really not sure where this is coming from since the majority of solarpunk people I’ve talked to do not espouse the view you are describing. But in the interest of fairness; why would solarpunk which only aims to create a fair, renewable energy based, democratic post scarcity society focused on human happiness be a prison to you?
Als Antwort auf TeryVeneno

Mainly because, at least as far as I've seen, solarpunk societies requires "taking responsibility for your survival into your own hands" which I am mentally incapable of doing, and not from lazyness or lack of effort. Trust me, if I could hold a job I wouldn't be able to afford to not be working right now. I might have a mild form of oppositional defiant disorder or a bad case of PTSD, but when someone is a jerk to me I take it personally and hold grudges, making working with people who give me orders or take orders from me essentially like ordering a cat to herd sheep.
Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

I think we’ll just have to agree to disagree, I think solarpunk societies are focused on community and not on "taking responsibility for your survival into your own hands". That view is for people trying to run away from others. Generally solarpunk is just for people who want to build a more environmentally conscious society, not one that abandons people. In your case specifically, I think a solarpunk society would actually benefit you greatly.
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Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Damn, I’m sorry all that happened to you, I wish you the best in your life going forward. And I do have to say I don’t think anyone who is into solarpunk thinks those with mental disability should just be pushed aside and discarded. That would be almost antithetical to a concept so focused on improving the human condition.

That said, I could see where an emphasis on nature more in the goals could lead to people suggesting they want to take away the things you hold dear. However, I don’t think that’s the majority opinion of people into solarpunk nor do I believe you would be unable rely on machines in a solarpunk society. The whole goal of solarpunk is environmentally conscious technology not no technology. In fact I think most solarpunks would love a future that has the technology you would want. In other words I think your goals are in alignment if not complete agreement.

Als Antwort auf OpenTTD

Murder in the tool library

Edit: actually they feature even more prominently in the sequel #Missing Mermaid, where the investigators interview a full time gamer and possible witness who was streaming some kind of dark souls sequel near the dissapearance/possible kidnapping.

Also the rulebook for the TTRPG Fully Automated specific mentions that playing videogames full time is an accepted lifestyle in their post-scarcity society, and the contacts character stat tracks online contacts independently from offline, so you can make a character who has no Internet presence, or who lives entirely in games and basically only makes friends through videogames, or anywhere in between.

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Als Antwort auf insomniac_lemon

To be fair, it seems like I may have had bad luck in the first three solarpunk works I ever experienced. My issue against the whole idea is "this is a society that can no longer afford to value non-practical pursuits, it is the future we are headed towards, therefore our present society can no longer afford to value non-practical pursuits" that was somehow in all three solarpunk works I encountered.

The three in question were Girl in Wave: Wave in Girl, the Necroverse by "RichM", and a story that a fair-weather friend wrote that I no longer have a copy of that showed a dystopian cybersolarpunk hybrid where "Covid-19 has ended the modern age and now everything is powered by wind turbines because most of us are dead".

As a result of such bad luck, I may have overestimated how central that theme of "self-sufficiency or die" is to the genre.

Als Antwort auf SpaceNoodle

Yeah I think it's been found that there is a sweet spot for income and happiness. Having billions of dollars won't make you any happier, but I think it's something around $120K per year that provides everything needed to have a happy life without having to stress much about paying the bills.

Unfortunately the vast majority of people fall way below the level of income needed that's necessary to be able to have a stress free long walk and a good conversation that's not about how to make ends meet, etc.

Als Antwort auf SpaceCowboy

Interestingly, my personal calculations agree with that general figure.
Als Antwort auf SpaceCowboy

That figure heavily depends on cost-of-living in your area. Somewhere between 1x and 3x your local living wage is a good starting point. livingwage.mit.edu/
Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

everything on the list requires money. but I get the point you're trying to say
Als Antwort auf answersplease77

I didn't realize I needed money to sleep well... Or to have a slow morning... Or to listen to birds sing?

Even in third world countries you'd have this...

Als Antwort auf DingoBilly

Hard to have a slow morning and day naps when you're rushing between two jobs because you don't have money.

If you had money, you could be more selective in finding work that provided the balance and flexibility needed to appreciate the things in life that are free.

But all of these things are too expensive when you're time-poor, and most people are time poor because they're desperately trying to avoid being financially poor.

Als Antwort auf DillyDaily

We're talking about a very small amount of people who have to work multiple jobs 7 days a week, with many more poor people who don't do that.

And you didn't cover the birds singing, which you can do pretty much any place...

Als Antwort auf DingoBilly

I think you're underestimating how much labour the global poor perform in a 24 hour period, 7 days a week.

But yes, many of these things can be possible if you prioritise them for your mental health, my point is just that it's not always easy to prioritise mental health when you're focused on physical survival.

But obviously, if you can include these things in your routine, you absolutely should, there are virtually no downsides.

Als Antwort auf DillyDaily

I don't think I am actually.

I think it's almost impossible to miss every single one of these all the time. I have worked with the extremely poor, and watched documentaries of people in third world countries regularly. Most people even those who are literal third world slaves (indebted for life) can still regularly enjoy at least 2 of these things regularly.

I'm not saying it's not shit and that ideally everyone should experience all of them, but it's unrealistically cynical and nihilistic to think everyone poor is just miserable and doesn't enjoy anything.

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Als Antwort auf DingoBilly

My god you are clueless. Have you moved out of your parent's home yet? I'm just curious where you are in your life? If you moved, were you given a stable and well funded childhood? I'm just trying to understand the disconnect.
Als Antwort auf TacoButtPlug

Yeah I've lived out of home for close to 2 decades.

I think people here are being extremely dramatic if they say they never are able to sleep in or never have a chance to hear birds singing though, or to watch a sunset. That is absolute hyperbolic bullshit.

Unless this post is about doing it every day (which it isn't), then everyone gets to enjoy these luxuries at least semi-regularly.

Als Antwort auf stabby_cicada

I don't think we should consider these as luxuries. They should be the base experience
Als Antwort auf Ban DHMO 🇦🇺

But do you understand how much money you can make if you make them paid Add-ons or subscription based?!?! Think of the money! Think of the riches!
Als Antwort auf SendMePhotos

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Als Antwort auf Ban DHMO 🇦🇺

We have made it so that having the freedom to choose, a most basic human need, feels like doing incorrect stuff.

Like, just choosing to leave a relationship subjects you to so much pain and hate that you'd rather not do it.

It sucks, but sadly a lot of these things are luxuries. Some are getting better but others worse (for example, there are less birds now than in the past, or at least it seems that way).

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Anybody know some good books? Have been pretty disappointed for the longest time
Als Antwort auf Simon

A Psalm for the Wild-Built by Becky Chambers. It's quite uplifting.
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A friend literally just gifted me a copy of this because I've been feeling so burnt out by capitalism, and let me tell you, I devoured that book. It spoke to my weary soul. And made me want to quit my job (I already was wanting to quit my job)
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That's half of "Science Fiction" so I'll start with that.

You looking for a series or something standalone?

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Read the Vorkosigan Saga. Lois McMaster Bujold. The audiobooks are also outstanding. Long series with fantastic characters, each one distinct. It's a big space opera. Totally worth it.
Als Antwort auf OhmsLawn

Ooh, I'm piggybacking on this. Been looking for a good sci-fi audiobook. Thanks.
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I'd love to hear what you thank. FYI, they're all free on either Hoopla or Libby.
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First thing I did was look for it on Libby. Found the ebook but not the audiobook. I'll look again tomorrow though.
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A double feature of Moby Dick - Herman Melville and In the Heart of the Sea: The Tragedy of the Whaleship Essex - Nathaniel Philbrick.

That should keep you busy for awhile.

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Busy maybe, but will the be entertained.

I read Moby Dick once and it was not enjoyable in the least. It is boring as fuck. Maybe it's imitating through prose the long monotonous stretches between whale sightings, but that's not an engaging read.

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Definitely has the vibe of the original Princess Bride. I might have to look around for an abridged version.
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Honestly, I'm into anything if it's good. I just like really good art, but more towards fiction than non-fiction.
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If you're into fantasy, look into The Wheel of Time series. It's dense, absolutely packed with characters, and the world has a ton of detail. It's also 14 (rather large) books long, 15 if you count the prequel, so if you like it it'll keep you busy for a good long while.

If you've seen the Amazon series based on the books and were turned off by it, maybe give the books a try instead. The Amazon series doesn't do it justice, in my opinion.

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If you like sci-fi, I recommend The Expanse books and novellas.

The audiobooks narrated by Jefferson Mays are also good, as is the TV series, though they tried to cram too much into the last season, IMO, without actually finishing the story. The ending in the books is tons better.

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If you like sci-fi, I recommend Project Hail Mary. It was written by the author of the book that became the movie “The Martian” (also supposedly a real great book, and on my list). Same guy wrote the short story “The Egg” that’s a pretty good and quick philo-fi.
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The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt! Really, all her books but this one especially.

And anything by David Mitchell, though my favorite is 1000 Autumns of Jacob de Zoet.

If you read these I hope you enjoy them as much as I did!

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Yes, I love when birds wake me up at 5 am from their incessant singing because they can't shut up. It makes me so happy to not be able to sleep.
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I realized I needed to change my life when I broke my collarbone and those 2 weeks of not doing much were so outrageously enjoyable
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The other morning my dogs woke me up way too damn early, but it meant I got to watch a very fat pigeon on the power line behind my house, and I got to see the finch population rapidly increase around it. (I swear I saw one little bird and by the time I got out of bed there were 5 jetting around. Pigeon did not move.)

I agree that these are luxuries for a lot of people. Some of them can be found with mindset shifts (from "fuck you dogs" to "oh look, pretty birds" for example) but it's also hard to shift your mindset to positivity when our society tries its damnedest to beat happiness out of you.

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But my time for fun and play is spent on mass media and consumerism!