Yesterday was my first bad day on Mastodon, and what happened to me could happen to you, so let me explain what went down, and how I got blocked by a lot of people.
In March, I wrote a post critical of Musk (picture 1). I then asked another Mastodon user (Harriett) whom I have found friendly, if she would help me translate a Danish phrase to English, and linked to the Musk post where the phrase would be relevant.
But yesterday — 4 months later — that blew up in my face. Here is how…
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •You see, yesterday someone discovered that my old post requesting translation help had been mirrored onto Bluesky by the so-called bridge system. And that system had made the VERY unfortunate error of removing my link to the context about Elon Musk, and instead now linked to Harriett's profile page.
So it now looked as if I was not talking about Elon Musk, but talking about Harriett (see picture) — as if I was making fun of this Mastodon user behind her back on Bluesky.
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •A person saw this unfortunate mishap on Bluesky and rightly found it suspicious looking, so that person then warned Harriett about it. She then got upset thinking I was making posts ridiculing her on Bluesky, blocked me, and then wrote about this to all of us here on Mastodon.
I have no hard feelings about that, because the technical glitch really made it seem like I was a bad person.
But then more people got upset, and a whole thread formed where people agreed I should be blocked.
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •And while all of this went down, I was not even here. Because yesterday I hosted a party and was preparing dinner and entertaining guests here in Denmark.
Then late in the evening when the guests went home, I sat down to check in on Mastodon, and all of hell had broken loose.
Because everyone was thinking the Bluesky post came from me, the famous profile Gottalaff now entered the discussion which amplified it to her 33,000 users, and even more people blocked me, called me out etc.
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •The only person who stopped to check if all of this was really true was @Gargron. And he wrote a very helpful post explaining that the bad post on Bluesky was created by the bridge system, which had linked to Harriett's profile and thereby changed the meaning of my original post.
But Gargron's post was very technical, and I am not sure everyone understood it, and I was still getting angry responses, and more people blocked me.
So I was very sad to discover all this late last night.
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •But here is the lesson we can all learn from this: If you see something strange where someone suddenly seems to change their behaviour and do something malicious, it is important to ask questions before concluding what is going on.
In this case, a post which seemed like it was written by me was actually altered by an IT system that I have never given permission to do so — and it now seemed like I was spreading hatred.
In conclusion: I blame no one for this incident. I fully understand…
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Randahl Fink
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •… why someone saw the Bluesky post and wanted to warn Harriett. I fully understand how Harriett could feel shocked that it looked like I was talking about her on another platform. And I fully understand how Gottalaff would amplify that and try to stop me from harassing Harriett.
So please, do not send any negativity their way. Let us just all learn from this:
Never jump to conclusions about other people. If you see sudden strange behaviour from someone, ask questions before concluding.
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Recovered Expert und imdat celeste [witchzard] haben dies geteilt.
reticuleena Leena Simon
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •I'd like to add another conclusion: Don't block immediate and try to avoid blocking overall. Keep it for the real serious cases. Blocking should be the very last resort. Because (as the word says) it blocks communication and sometimes that is nessesary. But problems are not solved this way and we should always try to solve problems. Don't make communication harder. Overblocking makes us less resilient and divides us. And also it does not give the blocked person the option to explain what happened. So it could turn to a trial-by-mob-situation. (Even if no one within the mob can be blamed individually - like in this case.)
skua
Als Antwort auf reticuleena Leena Simon • • •Yay for using the Block hammer as a last resort.
Miha Markič
Als Antwort auf Randahl Fink • • •Elena Rossini ⁂
Als Antwort auf Miha Markič • • •@mihamarkic absolutely! 🙌
and it's really heartening to see that @Gargron got in on the case and wanted to help ❤️
Sorry you went through this unnecessary drama @randahl. Anyone who has been following you here knows you are not a bully! You couldn't be further from it. This behavior would have been so out of character and worthy of further verification/research. It's depressing to see how people are so ready to grab their (metaphorical) pitchforks without pausing first to analyze a situation
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Als Antwort auf Elena Rossini ⁂ • • •@_elena @cruiser @mihamarkic @Gargron "Hurt people hurt people" - I know Harriet and she's not some trigger-happy person but when you see your identity, including your photo, show up in such a situation, most of us who have been on the wrong end of what is going on in the world would panic.
So, please don't judge someone because they panicked - they may have endured too much pain already and you don't know it.
Elena Rossini ⁂
Als Antwort auf imdat celeste [witchzard] • • •@ics ZERO judgement towards Harriet, I can understand the panic.
My sadness (not judgement) was over other people not directly involved in the situation, who immediately grabbed their metaphorical pitchforks and were ready to condemn @randahl (without analyzing the situation).
Not everyone, obviously.
I am glad that the situation has now deescalated.
@cruiser @mihamarkic @Gargron
imdat celeste [witchzard]
Als Antwort auf Elena Rossini ⁂ • • •@_elena Sorry, then I had misunderstood your post. Yes, the other people's behavior was, indeed, weird-to-creepy for me.
I waited this out to see what the actual problem/situation is because I know both people involved and couldn't explain myself how something like that could ever happen.
We have blocked BlueSky-bridge on all our servers especially because we have no control over the bridge nor what happens on BlueSky - and this is proof again for me that we acted correctly there.
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@randahl @cruiser @mihamarkic @Gargron
Elena Rossini ⁂
Als Antwort auf imdat celeste [witchzard] • • •